I don't know if you saw my message to the Navarch, but one of the inmates is someone I consider an enemy. I suppose I wanted to avoid thinking about his presence for a while. Be someone else. And Travis isn't so bad to be around when he's not trying to be antagonistic. And it was so ridiculous I thought everyone would find it funny in the end?
I'm afraid I don't know if any of that is helpful.
... you don't have to answer to me you know you don't owe any of the other wardens anything technically none of us do
but i just thought given what you must have gone through on the other ship and come through the other side and chose to become a warden here ... i don't know
it doesn't matter what i thought nevermind me i'm sure this will all blow over for you soon
No, you're right to be concerned. This was inappropriate. I suppose I'm learning that graduation doesn't indicate that one is "fixed". Not that I was under that illusion, but this was the exact sort of thing I would have done before and I had hoped I would just know better now?
Essentially, it turns out I still have much to improve upon. Perhaps so did the wardens at the last ship. Probably we all do.
it's a process ... i suppose everything is but you know what i mean
i just said to someone the other day that this place is about the choices we make learning to make better ones it isn't just for the inmates i think just that the wardens are coming at it from a different perspective
we all have things we're trying to change about ourselves and that's the thing about change it's always a struggle if it were easy none of us would be here everyone is bound to make a mistake now and again even wardens
so i guess what i mean to say is if you feel like this is more than a temporary setback you shouldn't you're still growing and that's okay :)
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I suppose I wanted to avoid thinking about his presence for a while.
Be someone else.
And Travis isn't so bad to be around when he's not trying to be antagonistic.
And it was so ridiculous I thought everyone would find it funny in the end?
I'm afraid I don't know if any of that is helpful.
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thank you
... you don't have to answer to me you know
you don't owe any of the other wardens anything
technically
none of us do
but i just thought
given what you must have gone through on the other ship
and come through the other side
and chose to become a warden here
...
i don't know
it doesn't matter what i thought
nevermind me
i'm sure this will all blow over for you soon
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This was inappropriate.
I suppose I'm learning that graduation doesn't indicate that one is "fixed".
Not that I was under that illusion, but this was the exact sort of thing I would have done before and I had hoped I would just
know better now?
Essentially, it turns out I still have much to improve upon.
Perhaps so did the wardens at the last ship.
Probably we all do.
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... i suppose everything is
but you know what i mean
i just said to someone the other day that this place is about the choices we make
learning to make better ones
it isn't just for the inmates i think
just that the wardens are coming at it from a different perspective
we all have things we're trying to change about ourselves
and that's the thing about change
it's always a struggle
if it were easy none of us would be here
everyone is bound to make a mistake now and again
even wardens
so i guess what i mean to say is
if you feel like this is more than a temporary setback
you shouldn't
you're still growing and that's okay :)
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I shall do my best to continue to improve.
Still, I do apologize for my behavior.
We're in this together, and I mean to carry my weight.
I won't become distracted from that again.